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Don't F*** This Up! by Fred Stuvek


The margin of error is shrinking...


Has the new normal just f***ed up the future for young adults?

Thanks to a global pandemic, they’re entering adulthood, their college career, or the workforce during record unemployment, a terrifying economy, and social guidelines that have all but eliminated life as we knew it.

And what about the millions of newly unemployed workers in America? As they look for a fresh start, how will they overcome the challenges of an economy decimated by COVID-19?

If having a strategy for the future was important before, now it's critical. The choices new grads, young adults, or the newly unemployed make and the practices they adopt right now are going to shape not only their career, but every other aspect of their life as well.

Fred Stuvek, Jr. has some hard-earned life lessons to share with them. As a former athlete who served in the military and successfully started his own business, he has advice for those looking to thrive in this battered economy.

In Don’t F*** This Up!, he explains how harnessing certain proven success principles will help guide those looking for a new start in a world where the margin of error is narrower than ever. He can explain the following in more detail:

● Adopt high standards and become disciplined

● Learn how to focus on goal setting from a Hall of Fame athlete turned soldier

● Develop and improve essential relationships from someone who has built successful businesses

● Establish a high level of personal integrity through the right actions and attitude

● Develop the resilience and grit to overcome adversity



Need a New Start? 5 Steps to Restart Your Career

By Fred Stuvek, Jr.


There are numerous reasons why someone changes jobs, and it is much more commonplace than in former times. Estimates range that the average worker will change jobs anywhere from 8 to 15 times in his or her career.


A career change, however, is a different matter. It is usually sparked by a lack of motivation or inspiration in what you are doing as you find yourself simply going through the motions, don’t look forward to going to work, and can’t imagine yourself doing what you are doing now five or ten years from now. And once again, career changes are not unusual and are happening more since people are working longer and later in their lives as a matter of either choice or necessity.


Regardless of what situation you find yourself in, it is never too late for a career change. What you do and how quickly you proceed is predicated on your circumstances.


In any event, with planning and over time, it is eminently doable, if you act and follow these five steps.


Identify – Look at those areas that match up best with your interests, skillset, and qualifications that would be something you would look forward to doing. Assess what positions you would be most interested in; what skills you currently have and don’t have, and what you need to do to become a qualified, viable candidate.


Plan – Put together a list of all the things you need to do. Develop goals, in order of priority, along with objectives and timelines. Be realistic and practical in terms of what you need to do and how long it will take to do it. Anticipate the barriers or roadblocks that could sidetrack you and come up with strategies or coping mechanisms to deal with them. Financial planning is an integral part of this process.


Act – Nothing changes if nothing changes, and nothing happens if you don’t act. While your intentions are good, this career change will only come to fruition if you act upon it. Fear destroys more dreams than failure ever has, so put aside your fears, develop your confidence, and take that first step. It may seem like a long journey, but the sooner you start, the sooner you get there. Once you have taken that first step, take another, and continue to move forward. Later you will look back, reflect on this, and be glad you took that first step.


Accountability – While it is important to have a support group of family and friends, which is of incalculable value, at the end of the day you are responsible for you. Develop a routine, with good habits, and stick with it. Train and condition yourself to become more disciplined so that many of your actions are second nature. Track your progress by routinely reviewing you plan. Hold yourself accountable, and get rid of the excuses.


Persevere – If you are wired for instant gratification, get rewired. This is a process that will take time and effort. Understand and accept that setbacks will occur along the way and find a way to deal with them. Review your plan, along with the objectives, and adjust as necessary.


If you need help, do not be shy about asking for it. Do not lose sight of what you are about and why you are doing this. Celebrate the successes – even the small ones – with family and friends as this will energize you.


As you continue to move forward your mindset, habits, and discipline are central in enabling you to successfully execute the plan and achieve your goals.


About the Author



FRED STUVEK JR. is the author of Don’t F*** This Up and It Starts With You. He has achieved extraordinary success in diverse realms. He has been inducted into the Pennsylvania Sports Hall of Fame for achievements in football, basketball, baseball, and track. He graduated from the United States Naval Academy, after lettering three years as quarterback for the Midshipmen. After service as a Naval Officer, he transitioned to the business world where he has held senior leadership positions in private and public companies, both domestically and internationally. Key successes include an international medical imaging start-up that led to a successful IPO, and forming a private medical services company, which he subsequently sold. From the playing field, to the war room, to the board room, his leadership and accomplishments have given him a distinct perspective and a results-oriented mindset.


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Don't let the title fool you -- this book isn't one that includes the f-bomb in every sentence. But it did get your attention, didn't it?! I honestly wish I'd been given a book like this back in high school. I struggled with simply getting by and never had someone guide me in finding my way. I watched the influential adults in my life working jobs they hated and dreaded walking into every day. I didn't want that, yet I walked right into that same path.


Now that I've crossed that mid-30's threshold, it is high-time for me to get my butt in gear. I have children of my own who are easily-influenced teenagers. They need to see that I am willing to put myself out there for what I want in life. I need to be a better example than I had!


I have always been the type to take personal responsibility but I also allow the opinions of others and my past to hold me back. This book is exactly the swift kick i my rear-end to push me out of the rut I've allowed myself to be stuck in. I'm taking on the challenge and ready to accept the hard work ahead of me to reach my fullest potential.


The lessons in this book come from Stuvek Jr.'s personal life experiences (some good, some bad). They are not flashy and new-age methods and that is what I love about it. It's all practical, sound advice. You can implement these if you're willing to put in the hard work. With COVID, we all have the chance to make changes in our life. We may have extra time and if we use it to its fullest extent, we can take our lives to a new level.


Highly recommended for anyone who wants to change careers, graduating and entering the real world, etc.


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